Gallo, Carmine Talk Like TED: The 9 public speaking secret of the world's top minds
Words
Websites
significantobjects.com p 70
Dr. Jill neuroanatomical transformation and teenage brain 87
@TEDquote 154
Ideas
What is our story? 61
Authors/books
Guber, Peter 66 Tell to win--Winning the story wars
Sach, onah 63
Palmer, Amanda 76 blog on making ted talk
Stevenson, Bryan TED talk
Powell, Colin it worked for me
May, Matthew The laws of subtraction 189
Introduction
“I’m a learning machine and this is the place to learn”--Tony Robbins 2006 TED talk
TED talks to watch
Bryan Stephenson
David Christian
Organize TEDx Event--2015-16 Matt Kemper
#1 Unleash the Master Within
17 passion is contagious--
34--Howard Friedman longevity Project charisma can be learned
37 passionate people smile a lot, are positive and enthusiastic
39 Passion the person has for own growth is most important thing.
#2 Master the art of storytelling
Bryan Stevenson
49 Dale Carnegie
48-9 logos, ethos, pathos
61 What is our story?
63 jonah sachs definition of story--
65 Gladwell, “In embracing the diversity of human beings, we will find a surer way to true happiness.”
Telling stories is the virtual equivalent of taking people on a field trip, helping them to experience the content at a much more profound level.
Peter Guber Tell to Win
significantobjects.com buy cheap objects from thrift stores, write a story around the object and sell on ebay.
73 Recipe for great characters--a passionate heart--mavericks, dissidents, outsiders, rebels who ask questions, bend the rules and take risks.
Ideas are the currency of the 21st century
stories illustrate, illuminate, inspire
#3 Have a conversation
Don’t fake it until you make it, fake it until you become it.
be authentic--find right words to tell how you feel about the topic,
deliver words for max. impact
practice having a conversation so you can focus on your story.
3 steps to craft a wonderful presentation
1. Help with planning--talk with people who know you best
watch out for the “curse of knowledge” give big picture
2. Early feedback--read out loud in front of other people
3. Rehearse a lot in front of anyone who will listen
81 Elements of verbal delivery
Rate: speed at which you speak
Volume: loudness of softness
Pitch: high or low
Pauses: short pauses to punch key words--the verbal equivalent of a highlighter
82 Pace--150-160 words per minute--slighly slower than casual conversation--give people time to think
90 Great leaders
strong eye contact
firm handshake
speak concisely and precisely
remain calm--don’t get flustered
use open gestures--palms up or open and hands apart
98 Gestures
use sparingly--be natural don’t think about what gesture to make
use at key moments--expansive gestures for key moments
keep gestures (and eye gaze) within power sphere--circle from top of eyes to tips of outstretched hands to belly button
hands below the belly button lack energy and confidence
use complex gestures above the waist to give sense of confidence
to make ideas sell better
use “eager nonverbals”:
1. animated. broad, open movements
2. hand movements projected outward
3. forward leaning
112 teaching 2 jobs--1 to teach 2 to recruit everyone in the classroom to join the pursuit of truth
#4 Teach me something new
115 “learning is addictive because it is joyful” Peter Gabriel
“Babies are born with a deep desire to understand the world around them and an incessant curiosity that compels the to aggressively explore it.” John Medina molecular biologist U Dub med
116 brain “save button”
dopamine-- when it is present we remember, if not it doesn’t stick
how do i increase dopamine? make info new and exciting
123-125 Susan Cain “zero correlation between being the best talker and having the best ideas”
introverts are needed and so are the things they carry
explore outside of your field bombard the brain with new experiences
great conversations take you to places you had never considered
131 before presentation--What is one thing I want people to take away? one thing for them to know? keep to under 140 characters--”twitter friendly”
133 well crafted headline--id product, service or cause and what makes it unique
people want to experience, engage to endeavor
inspiration and growth come from being uncomfortable “pain = memories”
#5 Deliver jaw droppiing moments
138-9 plan story first--use senses
140 dopamine=post it note
#6 Lighten up
humor--if not good at telling jokes, tell stories from someone eise or show funny, apporpriate video
PArt II Memorable
#7 Stick to the 18 minute rule
184 college students who listened to info knowing test is coming grew more anxious until took test
187 brain cells use twice as much energy as other cells
mental activity depletes glucose
188 creativity thrives under constraints
191 “Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication” Leonardo da Vinci
“our life is frittered away by detail, Simplify, simplify.” Thoreau
1. Attitude 2 choices when facing “bumps in the road” 1 gloom and doom, 2 grieve, then face the future” great future = choose number 2
2. Awareness Listen to your inner 3 year old--remember you saw everything for the first time once
3. Authenticity--being cool with you, follow your heart, put yourself in places you love, meet people you enjoy talking to
people want to be taught something new and don’t want to wait too long to learn it
198 Message map
1. Twitter friendly headline
2. support the headline with 3 main messages
3. reinforce three messages with stories, statistics, and examples
200 mesage map template
#8 Paint a Mental picture with multisensory experiences
203 water not emotional unless you don’t have it
204 brain doesn’t pay attention to boring things--dopamine
206 stimulate senses without physically touching the audience-if you can imagine how water smells or tastes it activates same areas of the brain as if you actually touched it.
210-11 Avg powerpoint has 40 words per slide
try to take 10+ slides to reach 40 words total
213 multitasking is a myth--John Medina, molecular biologist U Dub school of medicine
picture superiority effect--pictures are better than words duh
#9 stay in your lane
be authentic, open and transparent--people can spot a phony
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